20th April, 2008

Are You in Denial?

A few weeks ago I bumped into an old schoolmate I hadn’t seen in ages. Stopped to say hello and how long it’s been when she told me, “I know all about you!!” That caught me off guard.

Her: “You have a blog, don’t you?”
Me: “No!”

I have no idea why I said no! It was an automatic and instant response.

She then explained how she came to that conclusion, all of which made perfect sense! But by then, I felt stupid. I couldn’t go back and say, “Yeah, it’s me. I lied.” I had to continue denying it, all the while thinking “why?!” It’s not like I write about anything personal or about anything I would mind others knowing about.

So, this goes out to you, if you’re reading. Yes, it’s me! And yes, everything you said and your conclusions were right on! :)

Posted at 3:41 pm |


14 Comments

  1. chikapappi said:

    Now you’re a public figure too :) It’s great when someone spots you.. I don’t deny it any time someone asks

    April 20, 2008 at 4:13 pm

  2. Marzouq said:

    Nice to see that you are around! loool! Now that is funny, I do get into that situations sometimes but people seem to automatically know its me without thinking twice! hehehehe! So I admit to it and move on!

    April 20, 2008 at 4:43 pm

  3. MSB said:

    Chika: haha not a public figure! :) she knows me from school so with all the clues on my blog she figured it’s me.. and i didnt WANT to deny it! dunno why i did.. & then it was too late to back track!

    Marzouq: shasawee malgoofa o my first impulse is to deny! i’ve been trained that way..

    April 20, 2008 at 4:46 pm

  4. Cat said:

    mmm

    ymkn agool NO awal men el 9adma enna they could tell enah it’s me ! and then i’ll admit it :)

    April 20, 2008 at 9:11 pm

  5. Enigma said:

    lool i think cuz bloggers try to be anonymous at first, and then don’t give a damn, bs ur first instinct is to deny!

    April 20, 2008 at 11:20 pm

  6. Delicately Realistic said:

    I hate it when my mouth works over time and beats my brain !

    Bes im sure shes a good sport and when she’ll read this she’ll understand hehehehe ;*

    April 22, 2008 at 12:00 am

  7. MSB said:

    Cat: el meshkila by the time i realized what’s happening, i looked too stupid to back out.. especially that i was SO adamant about my denial! :/

    Enigma: exactly!

    DR: yes yes… mouth sometimes moves WAY faster.. especially when caught off-guard! :) and yes, i’m sure if she reads this she’ll laugh and say “I KNEW IT!” :)

    If she IS reading, then please email me. My email address is in my “About Me/Contact Me” Section (top right)

    April 22, 2008 at 8:16 am

  8. zak said:

    LOL! I think you’re all talking about me :) I am the ‘malgoofa’ schoolmate who outed you in the mall! To be honest, even after your denial I still had my doubts (I KNEW IT)! but I also felt really badly about it cause maybe I overstepped some bloggers code or something? I respect your right to anonymity and should not have put you on the spot like that. Its just that I wanted to tell you how much I enjoy your blog :) as you know, I’ve been off the island for awhile and the homeland blogs keep me connected, so I just wanted to acknowledge the essential service you provide! Your secret is safe with me. Keep on blogging!

    April 22, 2008 at 5:32 pm

  9. MSB said:

    zak: ZAAAAAAAAAAAAAK!!!! :) yes yes it’s you! glad to see you on here again and glad you got the truth. Had no idea how to reach you again to tell you. Was happy to know that you’re reading.. although, I have to admit, haven’t been in a writing mood lately! For you though, will see what I can do ;)

    April 22, 2008 at 5:48 pm

  10. Deema said:

    hello.. i like your blog, and this post is just so funny! i usually invite people to my blog :D which is kinda too open :D i don’t know if i’m missing some of the thrill in being anonymous but i’m already enjoying it without being so :)

    April 26, 2008 at 11:23 am

  11. N. said:

    Oh hahah, isn’t that something! Well there she is and it seems she’s a great sport too! :D I hate when my words precede my thinking! When It happens I feel like an airhead.

    April 27, 2008 at 8:03 am

  12. Marzouq said:

    What have you been up to these days? you seem to be busy as hell!

    April 27, 2008 at 10:40 pm

  13. whatsupbahrain said:

    Oh yeah you do seem busy as hell :) we deserve a post or two from the queen of blogs !!!

    April 29, 2008 at 2:35 pm

  14. MSB said:

    Deema: thanks! :) i have invited people too.. friends and family! which made it crazy how i denied the issue! :)

    N: yeah, great sport! normally my words dont beat my thinking - except when i’m caught totally off guard i guess! :)

    Marzouq: hey hey! it’s been a while.. i have to be selective when reading your blog now cuz of the chocolate cake pics that greet me! gotta read it when i’m not hungry.

    whatsupbahrain: i AM busy! :P well, this is one post, and another has just been posted! i’ve kept up my part of the deal!

    May 3, 2008 at 2:24 pm

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