28th December, 2007
Calling All Women!
A couple weeks ago I wrote a post asking men about traits they would desire/dislike in a wife. I think it’s only fair now to return the favor and ask women this time.
What are the top 3 characteristics you would want in a husband and what’s the one trait that would make you run in the opposite direction?
Posted at 11:08 pm |
chikapappi said:
well, Decent - knows God and caring (Well i have more bas you want 3
)
One trait that makes me run away… hmmm being a cheap ass and with a bad tongue
December 29, 2007 at 12:10 am
N. said:
That’s quick
Will be looking forward to the answers. I’ll be enjoying, reading of course, these comments while on vacation! Ahem.
December 29, 2007 at 1:15 am
omtutu said:
oh… can I play?
The
: Ya3raf Rubbina (if the man truly “knows God” he will have so many characteristics that are desirable (ie. caring, loving, tender, treats you right etc.), Dependable, Confident.
Incase you were wondering what number 4 would be it would be Romantico
The
: This would definitely make me run like hell… A man whose temper is communicated physically.
December 29, 2007 at 8:23 am
Hopeless Poet said:
I will see the girl who mentions 3 characters that are in me and I will make a proposal
December 29, 2007 at 8:46 am
MSB said:
chikapappi: cheap ass + bad tongue = lethal combination!
N:
yeah, i already had it lined up to post but was lazy. your comment gave me a push! and i love the subtle way in which you’re trying to rub in your vacation! 
enjoy it..
omtutu: ahh yes, a hot tempered man who is physically abusive. Definitely something to run from!
HP: haha good luck finding your soul mate
December 29, 2007 at 9:07 am
Hopeless Poet said:
Aren’t you willing to tell us about the traits you like in the man?
December 29, 2007 at 1:22 pm
MSB said:
HP: akeed i will.. just waiting for more girls to share.. looks like men are more willing to discuss this than women!
i’ll answer before moving on to a new post.
December 30, 2007 at 10:38 am
Ms. D said:
1. mukhah 3od mo yahil ow tafeh * no translation in english ;p*
2. cares i.e doesnt run away lama ma y3jeba elwath3
mako 3 ;p ya7leely qanoo3a ;p
as for the NO NO`s fa ehma wayed ;p bs aham shy: ABUSER!
December 30, 2007 at 12:21 pm
princess said:
1)maturity
2)flexibility
3)ok this wnt make sense to most and im thinking all but he needs to be a bitch (and i dnt use a bitch in the way it should be used) but trust me its a good thing :p
andddddd the one thing i cannot tolerate is ina iykoon 3adeem il mas2ooliya, ya3ni u have a responsibility towards ur significant other, and if u dnt have that sense then nothing will help in changing all the other crap that i could tolerate
December 30, 2007 at 2:02 pm
Marzouq said:
This is irrelevant! I didn’t even bother to read it!!! hahaha
December 31, 2007 at 11:59 am
faith said:
1.) spiritual/religious,not the fake show off type but for it to be sincere so he can help me grow spiritually as well
2.) LOYALTY
3.) Sense of humour, i love to laugh and joke about everything it would be terrible if he wasnt like that or didnt apperciate a sense of humour
What I cant stand..if he doesnt pray strictly…prayers above all, that would make me run, other then that stuff already mentioned second would be no sense of responsibility..you just cant have a partner like that or a father to your kids
January 1, 2008 at 9:56 am
Hitman1 said:
Happy new year…. beat the pats
January 1, 2008 at 9:04 pm
MSB said:
Ms.D: mukha 3od.. true! that’s important!
princess: hahaha on #3.. i do know what u mean!!
faith: definitely important traits!
Hitman: Happy New Year to you too!! i’m really hoping we do!!!
January 2, 2008 at 10:49 am
MSB said:
ok.. didn’t realize how tough it is to narrow it down to only 3 till it came time for me to answer my own question:
* ekhaf Rabbeh: in the true sense.. not one who just does the rituals to do so.. one who deep down inside believes in it..
* strong personality: i can’t respect a man if his personality isn’t stronger than mine.
* tall!!: i like tall men!
but if i can’t have that cuz it’s not a ‘trait’, then i’ll go for dependable.. i need a man i can rely on.
as for the trait that would make me run in the opposite direction: selfishness! if the world revolves around him, then he can stay on his own.
January 2, 2008 at 10:57 am
MSB said:
Marzouq: your comment was tagged as spam! just fished it out! :/ guess my blog is getting you back for what ur blog has been doing!
January 2, 2008 at 11:00 am
Hopeless Poet said:
Al7amdillah I am tall :$
January 2, 2008 at 2:25 pm
MSB said:
HP: so now that you’ve seen all the comments, who are you going to propose to?
January 3, 2008 at 12:33 pm
think tank said:
i think it just clicks,an desirable charisma that fascinates towards each other,and there will be no time to count those three or thirty traits that we like or we dont.
January 4, 2008 at 1:02 am
MSB said:
think tank: i agree that this may be how it starts.. but that doesn’t ensure that it will get to the next step.. i may feel chemistry with someone but upon getting to know them better and better i may realize that they are totally wrong for me.
January 4, 2008 at 1:23 am
lone.rangeress.63 said:
my 3 traits wud be:
1)religiously smart and open-minded (meaning he has his beliefs in order, but is still living his life to the fullest)
2)the fact that we understand each other
3)His sense of appreciation
4)ever-lasting chemistry
and what i wudint like are all the bad characteristics that a “childish” person may possess (lying, cheating, selfish, arrogant, stubborn, etc.)
January 5, 2008 at 12:24 am
MSB said:
lone.rangeress.63: i think it would be tough to get ever lasting chemistry, or at least to know up front whether it would last or not.. i think it’s up to the couple to ensure it continues.
as for the ‘bad’ trait, i agree 100%! that’s what i was trying to aim for but u said it a lot better than i did..
January 5, 2008 at 8:33 am
Hopeless Poet said:
I decided to propose to all since all the good traits are in me except for Princess’s 3rd one that needs to be clarified
then for those who would say yes (probably 1 or 2 or even none 
) we will discuss further traits and hopefully before the end of 2020 we will get married 
January 6, 2008 at 7:35 am
lone.rangeress.63 said:
to MSB: ur right, both sides must give in, in order to fulfill that requirement.
to hopeless poet: loooool!!;P
January 9, 2008 at 7:31 pm
EniGma said:
1)Loyalty is the most important thing to me.
2)Sense of humor
3)tall
what makes me go away and NEVER come back:
cheating
January 11, 2008 at 8:27 pm
EniGma said:
make #3: taller than me
January 11, 2008 at 8:28 pm
MSB said:
HP: dont forget, your maximum is 4!
Enigma: hahaha on the tall bit! someone else like me!
how tall are you?
January 13, 2008 at 3:55 pm
Hopeless Poet said:
4 is too much :O let me find number 1 first
And where have you been since long time?
January 14, 2008 at 8:25 am
MSB said:
HP: khallas, good luck then… i’m here, bs way too lazy! i keep meaning to write every day.. but nothing comes to mind.
January 14, 2008 at 9:04 am
think tank said:
MSB: Well you can borrow the mind,and if u do not like the idea,then u can try to borrow the ideas and thoughs
January 15, 2008 at 11:05 pm