1st September, 2007
Life Goes On..
It is inevitable that we will all, at some point or another, lose someone… regardless of how strong that relationship is/was.
Some people enter our life for 2 weeks. Yet during those 2 weeks, you feel like you’ve gotten to know everything about them and they take over a big portion of your day and thoughts.
Other times, you know someone for 7 years.. it seems like an eternity. They’ll never leave you. Not after all you’ve been through. Not them!! Right?
One day though, they just walk out of your life. It doesn’t seem to make any sense. You are suddenly left feeling very unstable. Very confused. No reason seems to make sense. So you sit there, you wonder.. you get upset, annoyed, frustrated at that void they’ve left behind. At the end, you accept it and think ‘it’s their loss’ and move on!
I’ve had my share of losses. Some friends whom I thought would stick around forever are long gone. But I’m ok with it. In the end, I am nothing more than the sum of all my experiences. Whatever I’ve faced in my life, good and bad, have made me into the person I am today.
I am thankful for all those who have walked out of my life.. and even more thankful for those who have chosen to walk in. Such is the cycle of life. Whether we like it or not, we move on because life moves on!
Posted at 9:53 am |
chikapappi said:
Life… better sweet symphony
September 1, 2007 at 12:11 pm
MSB said:
chikapappi: yes… very bittersweet. i agree!
September 1, 2007 at 12:16 pm
eshda3wa said:
everyone leaves eventually,, either by choice or by death, only god remains forever, and thats when ur faith plays a very important role
September 1, 2007 at 1:51 pm
MSB said:
eshda3wa: sa7 elsanech!!
September 1, 2007 at 2:13 pm
lorena said:
ended..life goes on.. and we grow up with it .. friend enjoy and say elhamdullillha for the good and for the bad… it will make you feel better
thank you for stop by in to my blog
September 2, 2007 at 12:51 am
MSB said:
lorena: i do always say alhamdl’Allah for everything.. the bad before the good!
September 2, 2007 at 9:02 am
N. said:
What matters the most, I believe, is what these people leave behind as a part of your life. The memories. We care about the people so much because of how we feel with them, and what they leave with us; a memory, a moment, a piece of advice. Either way, I personally have gotten used to people coming in and out of my life, what is left that really matters.
September 2, 2007 at 9:40 am
MSB said:
N.: exactly… as one of my favorite quotes from a movie goes: “Beginnings are scary. Endings are usually sad, but it’s the middle that counts the most.”
September 2, 2007 at 9:43 am
ammaro.com said:
nothing ever stays the same….
September 2, 2007 at 11:12 am
MSB said:
ammaro: nor would I want it to.. life would be too boring..
September 2, 2007 at 4:21 pm
lorena said:
Ammaro I find you here? hahahahahahah
September 2, 2007 at 8:14 pm
ammaro.com said:
msb; true. it would be too boring, but its sometimes human nature to cling on to certain things… change sometimes messes with us…
lorena; ummm, yeah, hello :p
September 3, 2007 at 8:28 am
MAZE said:
gr8 post….:) ta3ali inti meta radayti 3ala blogging…i thought u stopped…
October 1, 2007 at 2:31 am
MSB said:
Maze: thank you!
la i never quit. i just took a break.. and i’ve been back for ages..
October 1, 2007 at 9:39 am